Fixing Your New Partner's Bad Kissing
Nothing beats sex for a true feeling of mind and body intimacy. And as wonderful as sex is, there's also something pretty special about kissing. It communicates not only passion but the emotion as well. For most it's an integral part of expressing their physical romance.
That expression starts to pale when your partner kisses badly. Unfortunately, kissing is one of those wait and see things; hard to predict. After all, no one puts "great person, bad kisser" on their internet dating profile.
Fortunately, bad kissing is not that difficult to fix! It's likely that your sweetie has just never learned how to kiss properly. Thinking about dumping your sweetie because you don't like their lip-lock technique (or the lack thereof)? No need, just keep reading for some subtle improvement techniques.
What They're Doing Wrong
There are a couple mistakes that are most common with bad kissers. And by far the most noticeable and unpleasant of them is over-use of the tongue. Maybe because of movies they've watched or what their friends told them when they were kids, but some people think that French-kissing means two people doing battle with their tongues. And so when it comes time to smooch, they bring their weapon out full-force. But "let me stick my tongue down your throat" is just never going to be sexy.
What To Do
Provided you never want to date this person again, feel free to tell them their technique sucks (pun intended!). Otherwise you're best to avoid mentioning it altogether. Why? Because no matter how nicely and gently to tell them, they're going to be embarrassed in a big way. You're going to have to take the lead on this, without ever uttering a word.
The first thing you need to do is get them interested in the kiss itself. When it's clear they're into it, pull back a bit and make them slow down. Don't make them feel rejected, just slow the pace of the kiss to help you introduce some new fundamentals.
Put away your light saber, Luke! If the person you're kissing really seems to want to engage in a tongue-battle, you've got to be the first one to disengage your tongue. Instead, begin to focus on the lips, changing the pace and style of the kiss.
Once the tongue truce has been established, it's time to introduce your smooching other half to more kissing options. Try alternating between kissing the top and bottom lips. Sucking the bottom lip lightly is also a pleaser as is gently using your teeth. Hopefully your date will enjoy the new sensations and it will spark some creativity of their own.
Once your partner is comfortable trying these new techniques let him or her take over. With time they'll discover the pleasure of varied kissing and their own creativity. And they won't even realize they had help!
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